The choices you make at 30 find you at 60.

A Dozen Cats or Grandkids

The choices you make at 30 find you at 60.

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Sixty, Fabulous, and Slightly Suspicious of That Purring Sound at 3 A.M.
Opinion

Sixty, Fabulous, and Slightly Suspicious of That Purring Sound at 3 A.M.

Gen X women were handed a glittering promise: chase the career, skip the chaos of motherhood, and arrive at your sixties as a sophisticated, self-actualized goddess. Now that the invoice has arrived, some are signing it cheerfully — and some are staring at it in the hallway at midnight, surrounded by cats named after Supreme Court justices.

Mar 11, 2026

You Broke the Glass Ceiling, Honey — Now Who's Coming to Thanksgiving?
Culture & Commentary

You Broke the Glass Ceiling, Honey — Now Who's Coming to Thanksgiving?

For decades, women were handed a shiny brochure promising that a corner office and a passport full of stamps would be more than enough. Now, a growing number of those same women are sitting in beautifully decorated homes, surrounded by career trophies and zero grandchildren, wondering why the brochure left out the part about eating dinner alone. Barbara Jean Whitfield takes an honest — and yes, slightly cat-forward — look at the loneliness epidemic quietly swallowing a generation of high-achieving women.

Mar 11, 2026